Psychopaths and Love One thing I’ve heard a lot about from psychopaths is that the person they fall in love with tend to have specific traits that are rare — but they love those traits specifically because of what it gives to the psychopath — thereby not actually loving the person for who they are but more what they provide. Those traits are typically: Someone that will put up with their shit because they know they see themselves as above the law and don’t have follow the rules that they expect everyone else to follow — it is very rare finding someone that will have this trait but its not the person that is loved its the fact that the person won’t leave while they treat them like garbage. The person is mentally resilient enough to put up with the ‘boredom’ tortures that the psychopath unleashes on them. When they get bored its like acid in the veins and for some reason nearly universally, it’s attacking the psychology or causing reactions out of their partner because it entertains th
Acceptance: It is what it is Photo by Daniel UvegÃ¥rd on Unsplash Betrayal. Betrayal is hard to accept. It’s hard to get past when you know what you’ve been through and you can’t articulate it in a way that really provides the weight of the gravity and a sense of the urgency that the situation truly should call for. You find out that no one cares what happened to you. No one cares how wrong it was, or how illegal it was. They just want you to shut up so they don’t have to hear about it. So you found yourself discriminated against, you were shunned, you were isolated, and were systematically picked apart by the very people that you should have been able to trust. Then, after it all if you try to explain it to anyone you’re further isolated by their invalidation and inability to understand the true magnitude of what you’d been through. It amounts to a total betrayal by everyone you knew and the idea of having to let it go and let those people get away with it is a near crippling feel