The Narcissists Trap Photo by Nick Fewings on Unsplash You can almost hear them laughing at you in the aftermath. The greatest trick the narcissist will ever pull on you is a nasty manipulation which will make you feel like you are a fool in the aftermath each and every time it happens The narcissist will hang on your every word to find out your most precious desires and your biggest weaknesses. When they find those precious desires they will hold onto them tight waiting for that moment where you’re tired of dealing with them. You can go off in a tirade about what it is that they are doing wrong and you know that they know what they did wrong. A 5 year old child would know that their behavior is unacceptable. So, you launch into your list of ethical, moral or boundary breaking activities that they have done and then you’ll start gearing up yourself to punish them when suddenly, they are saying all of the right things. Those desires for decent treatment, those desires for you to ha
The Secret to Making It Work with a Covert Narcissist Photo by Randy Jacob on Unsplash If you are someone that is in love with your covert narcissist then there is one secret tactic that you’ll absolutely need to have in place if you are going to last any length of time with your self-esteem and self-worth intact. You love your narcissist. You love it when we make you feel special and you feel like you are elevated when you are with us. Like the two of us form an elite team that is better than everyone and you’re proud to be part of something so awesome that it makes you feel great. We have an energy and a presence when we enter into any room and it seems like people want to hear what we have to say - they seem value you a little more for some reason and it seems like they look up to us in some way because of our relationship.. It’s all very strange but somewhat intoxicating as well. Its the illusion that you buy into. The only problem is that Ineed to pick apart the things that you